When we live in a particular place for many years, we get used to everything about the place and start loving it too. We tend to develop this typical “frog in the well” – a frog does not know the world beyond the well - attitude and are opposed to the idea of relocating to another place. Our friendly neighborhood is another deterrent and prevents us from stepping out of our comfort zone. If you have kids, it is another point to ponder because kids hate the idea of leaving their school and friends and going to a new place altogether. A new place calls for a lot of readjustment mentally and physically, especially for kids. But, when relocation becomes inevitable due to official or personal reasons, it is always good to welcome it with an open mind and healthy attitude
All these things apart, there are some positive sides to relocation, which cannot be ignored. We human beings are basically social animals that need to look for newer surroundings and newer people. Moving to a new place gives you an opportunity to mingle with people of all types and ethnic backgrounds, which gives to wide exposure and expands your intellectual horizons. You become fearless, more adventurous, and broad-minded and above all, can become well-braced to tackle any situation any time. In any sector, a well-traveled person is looked upon as more knowledgeable and enterprising individual. In corporate arena, such a person has an edge over the rest in the career graph.
Now comes the children part. Children being what they are, will be averse to the thought of leaving their school and friends. At home too, they would have formed many friends in the neighborhood and will not welcome the idea of any kind of displacement. Having said that, it is also true that kids are very adaptable by nature and in no time they will form new friendships at the new place and will gradually love their new school or college too. As a parent, the onus is on you to convince your children about the benefits of foraying into new regions or cultures. You will need to convince them that a change of scene will help them to form new bonds and new associations.